Monday, February 15, 2010

Do I test?

Today is such an off day for me. I had a super busy weekend, little sleep and my husband was an ass. I didn't even get a "happy Valentines Day" from him. I think we spoke 10 words all day. It makes my heart ache.

I waited for AF to show up as every morning my temps were dropping, but this morning it shot back up. So now I am possibly 13 dpo and despite not knowing if we had timed sex right and if I truly ovulated, I'm wondering if I should test.

This day sucks. My heart hurts, I'm tired, and now I don't want to face a negative test and another drawn out cycle.


  1. I would test if I were you. I know that a negative can be disappointing, but personally once I get that 'do I test/do I not?' it is all I can think about.

    I'm sorry about your lousy Valentines Day. It must have been in the air, because ours sucked too. Let's just run away and have our own V-Day redo.

  2. I would test tomorrow morning at 14dpo. Sometimes AF needs that negative to go ahead and show her ugly face or at least that is how it seems to me.

    I HATE this weather!!! It is making me more depressed than usual.

  3. I'm sorry you had a bad Valentine's Day. If it makes you feel any better, I got something I specifically said I didn't want. V day sucks when you're young and it seems to suck even more when you get older.

    I was originally going to say wait four more days (I've heard waiting until you have 17 days of high temps to test) but Mrs.S has a good point. It's going to be driving you nuts anyway (at least it would drive ME nuts) so at least if you test now you would have some kind of answer! I am so crossing my fingers for you.

    The thing is though, would you rather get hit when you already feel like crap or would you rather ruin an otherwise good day?